Getting married is not a piece of paper it’s a commitment of the couple to stays together forever. Not at this present time it is very easy to get married and just annul it after a year or a month of staying together. Most likely marriage becomes a trial and error in the process. Lots of couple just making I do’s and sooner after babies comes out they tend to fall out of love. Is this falling out of love? A conclusion of an experiment, or simply ending the never –ending responsibility of being a parent.

My husband and I got married when I was twenty and he was twenty one years old. I haven’t finished my college degree yet and my husband too. Though he was working at the time his salary was too small. Child comes and life becomes harder each day.

After our children become three, life becomes harder though my husband earned a lot more. During this time I was lure to go abroad to work, but my plan didn’t materialized since husband strongly opposed it. Our marriages were on the rocks, not because we hate each other but because we are financially tied up. Our two children that time were started to go to school. Sometimes I stow away and go back home after two or three days. I came back not because I love the fighting but because I can’t turn my back to a husband who was drowning from hardship and the three children that may go astray in the long run.

I had just stay for good after I realized that I just can’t ran away and hide from my parental obligation because I’m a mother. I dearly love my children, they were not born because of mistake we made them because of love. I stay and do my vows that I will stay beside my husband through thick and thin. Our life is easier and income more manageable after we quit on fighting. Thanks God.

My children become five our life now becomes better everyday. Two of my children had finished their college degree and have their own career. My third daughter is a sophomore in college; the fourth is junior high school and the youngest is a grade three pupil. I stand strong against all the trials that passed in our lives as couple because if I will be weak, my children will be at the losing end. I’m happy because I made the right decision. Our marriages survive because of husband and my human will and with the help of divine power that open the gate of infinite potential to become the best parents.

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