No one knows more about how to create a success marriage than those who live it every day. So, here are some tips to leave happily ever after:

• Be your ideal spouse If someone ask you what you wanted from your partner, you’d quickly rattle off a long list of qualities. But a great relationship starts with you, instead of criticizing your partner; just ask yourself “what can I do differently?” or “What am I doing that is upsetting him?” Once you commit to improving you, you’ll notice a difference in your relationship – and you’ll be motivated to improve even more.
• Think before you speak When you’re angry, just say to your partner “Don’t talk to me. I’m busy counting to 100”. Counting prevents fights from escalating because by the time you done, you either forget why you’re mad or you realize that what you’re angry for is unimportant.
• Ask for what you need instead of complaining about what is wrong If something bothers you, it’s better to get it off your chest rather than fume. But there’s a big difference between “We never go out to dinner” and “I’d like to go out for dinner”. Asking sets a positive tone, and is more likely to get results.
• Make your marriage a lifelong courtship Just because the honeymoon ends doesn’t mean the romance has stop. You should still hold hands, make love, and go outdoor together. Make relationship happier than you meet the 1st time.

I really love blogging. Although it gives me headache and drowsiness after my session due to my eyes, I really love checking other sites of people and reading their experiences. I got a chance to connect with them even in virtual world. Well, the last post I read this time is about her experience in San Diego California hotel. I feel envious the way she delivers it and the fact that the author is a well travel woman.

Based on my own research, San Diego has several attractions such as San Diego Zoo, SeaWorld San Diego Marine Park and the San Diego Convention Center and so much more. Plus, the place is also a great seaside destination with a number of water activities tourist can do. Hmmm, I know its different thing when it is experienced. I should dream of it.