I can’t forget the conversation of my daughter to one of her friends. I know it’s bad to sneak to people’s business. I was cleaning her room that time so I accidentally read the messages pooping in her YM. The truth, I am also interested since I know this girl in the other line. I think my daughter treat her as her close friend and even invited her to our house before.

Good thing my daughter didn’t mind. It even started our conversation: the topic her high school friend who migrate to the US last two years. That exact that exact date, she is taking a break from her hospital job. And she is joining a contest, where she needs to accumulate points to be rewarded a free stay in participating hotels. That is a real value in money isn’t it.

After that, I decided to leave the two of them. I still have several chores to finish.

All-Purpose Cleaner: Mix 1/2 cup vinegar and 1/4 cup baking soda into 1/2 gallon (2 liters) water. Store and keep. Use for removal of water deposit stains on shower stall panels, bathroom chrome fixtures, indows, bathroom mirrors, etc.

Air Freshener: Commercial air fresheners mask smells and coat nasal  passages to diminish the sense of smell. Baking soda or vinegar with lemon juice in small dishes absorbs odors around the house. Having houseplants  helps too. Prevent cooking odors by simmering vinegar (1 tbsp in 1 cup water)  on the stove while cooking. To get such smells as fish and onion off utensils and cutting boards, wipe them with vinegar and wash in soapy water.

Bathroom mold: Mold in bathroom tile grout is a common problem and  can be a health concern. Mix one part hydrogen peroxide (3%) with two parts  water in a spray bottle and spray on areas with mold. Wait at least one hour  before rinsing or using shower.

Carpet stains: Mix equal parts white vinegar and water in a spray bottle. Spray directly on stain, let sit for several minutes, and clean with  a brush or sponge using warm soapy water.

At the age of 75, I decided to take my mother home. I haven’t had any second thoughts on this decision. I thought bringing her at home will make her life much better. I can give her the right food for nutrients, seat lifts since she already needs assistance in getting up. I wouldn’t mind buying her everything she needs. It’s enough for me to know that she is in the right hand.

Everything went well for the first two weeks. However, my city kind of lifestyle and her country lifestyle doesn’t seem to work. My kids tried to adjust with her, but of course there are lapses especially in terms on food. I will not elaborate on that. The problem now is with her. She wants to go back to her home with my younger sister and live the kind of lifestyle she used to live. Even though it’s against my will, I have to send her back. This is the only way I can make her happy.