Life is all about balance and making hard choices, and there are often no harder choices to be made than those involving our finances. While it can become tempting to live above our means in the hopes that our financial situation will one day improve to the point where we can make up the debt we’ve incurred over the past years, this is neither an intelligent nor moral way to live.

Likewise though, cutting back too much in an attempt to save away for something such as our child’s education or our retirement fund may make it difficult to stay motivated. We all to help our children get ahead, and feel secure in our future retirement, but is it worth sacrificing the present for and making life more difficult now, for a future that is uncertain at any rate? These are the difficult choices that must be considered when planning out your finances current and future.

One of the common problems with purchases or expenses is that their future costs aren’t taken into consideration. You may budget for the price of a new car, but are you also budgeting for the increased insurance prices that will come with it, the other little upgrades that you may want to have done to it, the increased fuel cost that may be associated with the car, etc.? These scenarios are where people often get blindsided with costs they weren’t expecting and get in over their head. Many purchases are not just simple one-off payments or monthly charges, many will require additional expenses or payments you need to take into consideration.

Another risk you run by having your income constantly tapped to the limit is that when an emergency comes up you’re often forced to turn to the credit cards or some other line of credit to get through it, and from then on run the risk of that slippery credit slope.

It’s important to separate necessary from unnecessary expenses. We live in a true golden age of luxuries, and this is great and all, but too often these things come to be viewed as necessities when they are anything but. Thing about how people lived as little as 50 years ago and re-evaluate what’s really a necessity and what isn’t. (more…)